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foreign national Child Custody order in India




foreign national Child Custody order in India

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
CRIMINAL ORIGINAL JURISDICTION
WRIT PETITION (CRL.) NO.112/2007
Dr. V. Ravi Chandran ..Petitioner
Versus
Union of India & Ors. ..Respondents
JUDGMENT
R.M. LODHA, J.
Adithya is a boy of seven, born on July 1, 2002, in the
United States of America. He is a foreign national. The petition before
us is by the father - Dr. V . Ravi Chandran--praying for a writ of
habeas corpus for the production of his minor son Adithya and for
handing over the custody and his passport to him.
2. On August 28, 2009, this Court passed an order
requesting Director, Central Bureau of Investigation (CBI) to trace
minor Adithya and produce him before this Court. The necessity of
such order arose as despite efforts made by the police officers and
officials of different states, Adithya and his mother - respondent
no. 6--Vijayasree Voora--could not be traced and their whereabouts
could not be found for more than two years since the notice was
issued by this Court. In pursuance of the order dated August 28,
2009, CBI issued look out notices on all India basis through heads of
police of States, Union Territories and Metropolitan Cities and also
alert notices through Deputy Director, Bureau of Immigration
(Immigration), Ministry of Home Affairs, New Delhi and flashed
photographs of the child Adithya and his mother Vijayasree Voora.
Ultimately with its earnest efforts, CBI traced Adithya and his mother
Vijayashree Voora in Chennai on October 24, 2009 and brought them
to Delhi and produced the child along with his mother at the
residential office of one of us (Tarun Chatterjee, J.) on October 25,
2009. On that day, the CBI authorities were directed to keep the child
under their custody and produce him before the Court on October 27,
2009. Respondent no. 6 was also directed to be produced on that
date. On October 27, 2009, the matter was adjourned for November
4, 2009 since respondent no.6 wanted to engage a lawyer and file a
counter affidavit. On November 4, 2009, matter was adjourned to
November 10, 2009 and then to November 12, 2009. The petitioner
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was permitted to meet the child for one hour on November 10, 2009
and November 12, 2009. In the meanwhile, respondent no. 6 has
filed counter affidavit in opposition to the habeas corpus petition and
petitioner has filed rejoinder affidavit to the counter affidavit filed by
respondent no.6.
3. We heard Ms. Pinky Anand, learned senior counsel for
the petitioner and Mr. T.L.V. Iyer, learned senior counsel for
respondent no. 6. Now since minor Adithya has been produced, the
only question that remains to be considered is with regard to the
prayer made by the petitioner for handing over the custody of minor
Adithya to him with his passport.
4. But before we do that, it is necessary to notice few
material facts. Dr. V. Ravi Chandran - petitioner - is an American
citizen. He and respondent no. 6 got married on December 14, 2000
at Tirupathi, Andhra Pradesh according to Hindu rites. On July 1,
2002, Adithya was born in United States of America. In the month of
July 2003, respondent no. 6 approached the New York State
Supreme Court for divorce and dissolution of marriage. A consent
order governing the issues of custody and guardianship of minor
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Adithya was passed by the New York State Supreme Court on April
18, 2005. The Court granted joint custody of the child to the
petitioner and respondent no. 6 and it was stipulated in the order to
keep the other party informed about the whereabouts of the child.
On July 28, 2005, a Separation Agreement was entered between the
petitioner and respondent no.6 for distribution of marital property,
spouse maintenance and child support. As regards custody of the
minor son Adithya and parenting time, the petitioner and respondent
no. 6 consented to the order dated April 18, 2005. On September 8,
2005, the marriage between the petitioner and respondent no.6 was
dissolved by the New York State Supreme Court. Child custody order
dated April 18, 2005 was incorporated in that order.
5. Upon the petition for modification of custody filed by the
petitioner and the petition for enforcement filed by him and upon the
petition for enforcement filed by respondent no.6 before the Family
Court of the State of New York, on June 18, 2007, upon the consent
of both parties, inter - alia, the following order came to be passed:
"ORDERED, the parties shall share joint legal and physical custody of the minor child; and it is further
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 ORDERED, that commencing during August 2007,
Adithya shall reside in Allen, Texas; and it is further
ORDERED, that the parties acknowledge that it is the intention of the parties to reside within the same community. As such, it is the mother's current intention to relocate to Texas, within a forty (40) mile radius of the father's residence. If the mother does relocate to a forty (40) mile radius of the father's residence (which shall be within a twenty (20) mile radius from the child's school),, the parties shall equally share physical custody of Adithya. The parties shall alternate physical custody on a weekly basis, with the exchange being on Friday, at the end of the School day, or at the time when school would ordinarily let out in the event that there is no school on Friday; ................ ..................................................................... .....................................................................
ORDERED, that in the event that the mother does not relocate within forty (40) miles from the father's residence located in Allen, Texas (and within twenty (20) miles of Adithya's school), the mother shall have custodial time with the minor child, as follows:
A. On Alternating weekends from Friday, at the end of the school day until Monday, prior to the beginning of school, commencing during the first week of September, 2007. Such periods of custodial time shall take place within forty (40) miles from the father's residence located in Allen, Texas. In the event that there is no school on the Friday of the mother's weekend, she shall have custodial time with the child beginning at 7.00 a.m. on Friday morning, and, in the event that there is no school on Monday of the mother's custodial weekend, she shall have custodial time until 5.00 p.m. on Monday, and
B. For ten (10) consecutive days during Spring vacation from school; and
C. For the entirety of the Christmas recess from School, except for Christmas Eve and Christmas day, which shall be with the father. In the event that the school recess is prior to Christmas Eve, the mother shall have the right to have custodial time during those recessed
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 days to long as she produces the child at the father's residence for Christmas Eve and Christmas day ; and
D. During the following holidays:
i) Mother's birthday, which is on April 25;
ii) Mother's Day;
iii) Hindu Festival of Diwali and Deepavali;
iv) Adithya's birthday (July 1) in alternating years;
v) Thanks giving in alternating years (so that the mother has custodial time during even -
numbered years and the father has custodial
time during odd - numbered years);
vi) New Year's Day in alternating years (so that the mother has custodial time during even -
numbered years and the father has custodial
time during odd -numbered years) ;............ .................
............................................................ ORDERED, that the parties shall share the
summer recess from school so that the mother has custodial time for a total of up to fifty (50) days on a schedule so that each party has custodial time for 4 consecutive weeks, with the mother's custodial time commencing on the Monday following the final day of school..........
ORDERED, for the summer of 2007, the
mother shall have custodial time from June 18 until June 20; the father shall have custodial time from June 20 until June 24; the mother shall have custodial time from June 25 until July 1; the father shall have custodial time from July 1 until July 6; and the mother shall then have custodial time from July 6 until August 3 and she shall be solely responsible for transporting the child to the father's residence in Allen, Texas on August 3. The father shall have custodial time until the commencement of school. Thereafter the father shall continue to have custodial time until such time as the mother either a) returns from India and/or begins her alternating weekly
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 schedule as set froth herein, or b) moves within 40 miles of the father's residence in Allen, Texas and commences her custodial time during alternating weeks;....................................
............................................................. .............................................................
ORDERED, that each party agrees that they
shall provide the other parent with a phone number and address where the child will be located at all time, and that the other parent shall have reasonable and regular telephone communication with the minor child; and it is further
ORDERED, that each party agrees to provide
the other party with the child's passport during each custodial exchange of the minor child, and that each party shall sign and deliver to the other, whatever written authorization may be necessary for travel with the child within the Continental United States or abroad;"..............................................
6. On June 28, 2007 respondent no.6 brought minor Adithya
to India informing the petitioner that she would be residing with her
parents in Chennai. On August 08, 2007, the petitioner filed the
petition for modification (Custody) and Violation Petition (Custody)
before the Family Court of the State of New York on which a show
cause notice came to be issued to respondent no.6. On that very
day, the petitioner was granted temporary sole legal and physical
custody of Adithya and respondent no. 6 was directed to immediately
turn over the minor child and his passport to the petitioner and further
her custodial time with the minor child was suspended and it was
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ordered that the issue of custody of Adithya shall be heard in the
jurisdiction of the United States Courts, specifically, the Albany
County Family Court.
7. It transpires that the Family Court of the State of New
York has issued child abuse non-bailable warrants against
respondent no.6.
8. In the backdrop of the aforenoticed facts, we have to
consider--now since the child has been produced--what should be
the appropriate order in the facts and circumstances keeping in mind
the interest of the child and the orders of the courts of the country of
which the child is a national.
9. In re B--'s Settlement,1 Chancery Division was concerned
with an application for custody by the father of an infant who had
been made a ward of court. The father was a Belgian national and
the mother a British national who took Belgian nationality on marriage
to him. The infant was born in Belgium. The mother was granted a
divorce by a judgment of the Court in Belgium, but the judgment was
reversed and the father became entitled to custody by the common
1
{1940} Ch. 54
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law of Belgium. The mother, who had gone to live in England, visited
Belgium and was by arrangement given the custody of the infant for
some days. She took him to England and did not return him. The
infant had been living with mother in England for nearly two years.
The father began divorce proceedings in Belgium, and the Court
appointed him guardian. Pending the proceedings, the Court gave
him the custody and ordered the mother to return the infant within
twenty-four hours of service of the order on her. She did not return
the infant. The Correctional Court in Brussels fined her for
disobedience and sentenced her to imprisonment should the fine be
not paid. The Correctional Court also confirmed the custody order.
In the backdrop of these facts, the summons taken out by the father
that custody of the infant be given to him came up before Morton, J.
who after hearing the parties and in view of the provisions of the
Guardianship of Infants Act, 1925 observed thus:
"...At the moment my feeling is very strong that, even assuming in the father's favour that there is nothing in his character or habits which would render him unfitted to have the custody of the child, the welfare of the child requires, in all the circumstances as they exist, that he should remain in England for the time being..............................
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 In the present case the position is that nearly two years ago, when the child was already in England, an interlocutory order was made by the Divorce Court in Belgium giving the custody of the child to the father I do not know how far, if at all, the matter was considered on the footing of what was best for the child at that time, or whether it was regarded as a matter of course that the father, being the guardian by the common law of Belgium and the applicant in the divorce proceedings and the only parent in Belgium, should be given the custody. I cannot regard that order as rendering it in any way improper or contrary to the comity of nations if I now consider, when the boy has been in this country for nearly two years, what is in the best interests of the boy. I do not think it would be right for the Court, exercising its jurisdiction over a ward who is in this country, although he is a Belgian national, blindly to follow the order made in Belgium on October 5, 1937. I think the present case differs from Nugent v. Vetzera {FN10}, the case that was before Page Wood V.-C., and it is to be observed that even in that case, and in the special circumstances of that case, the Vice-Chancellor guarded himself against anything like abdication of the control of this Court over its wards. It does not appear what the Vice-Chancellor's view would have been if there had been evidence, for example, that it would be most detrimental to the health and well-being of the children if they were removed from England and sent to Austria..................................................
........I ought to give due weight to any views formed by the Courts of the country whereof the infant is a national. But I desire to say quite plainly that in my view this Court is bound in every case, without exception, to treat the welfare of its ward as being the first and paramount consideration, whatever orders may have been made by the Courts of any other country.".................. .................. .............
10. In Mark T. Mc.Kee vs. Eyelyn McKee2, the Privy Council
was concerned with an appeal from the Supreme Court of Canada.
That was a case where the parents of the infant were American
2
{1951} A.C. 352
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citizens. They were married in America and to whom a son was born
in California in July 1940. They separated in December 1940 and on
September 4, 1941, executed an agreement which provided,
inter- alia, that neither of them should remove the child out of the
United States without the written permission of the other. By a
judgment of December 17, 1942, in divorce proceedings before the
Superior Court of the State of California, the custody of the child was
awarded to the father. On August 1, 1945, following applications by
the father and the mother, the previous order as to custody was
modified to provide full custody of the child to the mother with right of
reasonable visitation to the father. Thereafter, and without the
consent or knowledge of the mother, the father went from the
United States of America with the child into the Province of Ontario.
The mother thereupon instituted habeas corpus proceedings in the
Supreme Court of Ontario seeking to have the child delivered to her.
Wells, J., before whom the matter came held that infant's best
interests would be served in the custody of his father. The Court of
Appeal for Ontario dismissed the appeal preferred by the mother.
However, the Supreme Court of Canada by majority judgment
allowed the appeal of the mother and set aside the order of custody
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of child to the father. On appeal from the Supreme Court of Canada
at the instance of the father, the Privy Council held as follows:
"..........For, after reaffirming "the well established general rule that in all questions relating to the custody of an infant the paramount consideration is the welfare of the infant", he observed that no case had been referred to which established the proposition that, where the facts were such as he found them to exist in the case, the salient features of which have been stated, a parent by the simple expedient of taking the child with him across the border into Ontario for the sole purpose of avoiding obedience to the judgment of the court, whose jurisdiction he himself invoked, becomes "entitled as of right to have the whole question retried in our courts and to have them reach a anew and independent judgment as to what is best for the infant". and it is, in effect, because he held that the father had no such right that the judge allowed the appeal of the mother, and that the Supreme Court made the order already referred to. But with great respect to the judge, this was not the question which had to be determined. It is possible that a case might arise in which it appeared to a court, before which the question of custody of an infant came, that it was in the best interests of that infant that it should not look beyond the circumstances in which its jurisdiction was invoked and for that reason give effect to the foreign judgment without further inquiry. But it is the negation of the proposition, from which every judgment in this case has proceeded, namely, that the infant's welfare is the paramount consideration, to say that where the trial judge has in his discretion thought fit not to take the drastic course above indicated, but to examine all the circumstances and form an independent judgment, his decision ought for that reason to be overruled. Once it is conceded that the court of Ontario had jurisdiction to entertain the question of custody and that it need not blindly follow an order made by a foreign court, the consequence cannot be escaped that it must form an independent judgment on the question, though in doing so it will give proper weight to the foreign judgment. What is the proper weight will depend on the circumstances of each case. It may be that, if the matter comes before the court of Ontario within a very short time of the foreign judgment and there is no new circumstance to be considered, the weight may be
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 so great that such an order as the Supreme Court made in this case could be justified. But if so, it would be not because the court of Ontario, having assumed jurisdiction, then abdicated it, but because in the exercise of its jurisdiction it determined what was for the benefit of the infant.
It cannot be ignored that such consequences might follow as are suggested by Cartwright, J. The disappointed parent might meet stratagem by stratagem and, taking the child into the Province of Manitoba, invoke the protection of its courts, whose duty it would then be to determine the question of custody. That is a consideration which, with others, must be weighed by the trial judge. It is not, perhaps, a consideration which in the present case should have weighed heavily.
It has been said that the weight or persuasive effect of a foreign judgment must depend on the circumstances of each case. In the present case there was ample reason for the trial judge, in the first place, forming the opinion that he should not take the drastic course of following it without independent inquiry and, in the second place, coming to a different conclusion as to what was for the infant's benefit."...................................
11. The aforesaid two cases came up for consideration in
Harben vs. Harben3, wherein Sachs J. observed as follows:
"It has always been the practice of this court to ensure that a parent should not gain advantage by the use of fraud or force in relation to the kidnapping of children from the care of the other spouse, save perhaps where there is some quite overwhelming reason in the children's interest why the status quo should not be restored by the court before deciding further issues. In the present case I am concerned with three young children, two of whom are girls and the youngest is aged only three. It is a particularly wicked thing to snatch such children from the care of a mother, and, in saying that, I have in mind not merely the mother's position but the harm that can be done 3
{1957} 1. W.L.R. 261
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 to the children. No affidavit of the husband tendering either his regrets or any vestige of excuse for his action has been proffered. Further, as I have already mentioned, when first I asked Mr. Syms what was the nature of the case which he might wish to make, if so minded, for depriving these children of a mother's care, he only spoke of her association with a certain man and never suggested that she had in any way whatsoever failed to look after the children properly."
12. In Kernot vs. Kernot4 , the facts were thus: In May 1961,
the plaintiff mother, an Italian lady, married an English man in Italy
where both were residents. A boy was born there on March 29, 1962.
On October 19, 1963, they obtained in Italian Court a separation
order by consent providing therein that custody of the child would
remain with father, with rights of access to the mother . On October
29, 1963, the father brought the infant to England with intention to
make England his home. The mother commenced wardship
proceedings in which she brought a motion for an order that the
father return the infant to her in Italy. She also prayed for restraint
order against him from taking the infant out of her care. Buckley, J. in
these facts held thus:
"So that even where a foreign court has made an order on the merits - which is not the present case, because the only order which has been made was a consent order without any investigation of the merits by the Italian court - that domestic court before whom the matter comes (the Ontario 4
{1965} Ch.217
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 court in the case to which I have just referred, or this court in the case before me) is bound to consider what is in the best interests of the infant; and although the order of the foreign court will be attended to as one of the circumstances to be taken into account it is not conclusive one way or the other. How much stronger must the duty of this court be to entertain the case where the foreign court has not made any order based on any investigation of the case on its merits."
13. In re H. (Infants)5, the Court of Appeal was concerned
with two American boys whose divorced parents were both citizens
of United States of America. On December 11, 1964, the Supreme
Court of New York State made a consent order directing that the
two boys whose custody had been given to the mother should be
maintained in her apartment in New York and not be removed from
a 50 miles' radius of Peekskill without the prior written consent of
the father. However, the mother in March 1965 brought these boys
to England and bought a house for herself and children in June
1965. On June 15, 1965, the New York Court ordered the children
to be returned to New York. The mother started wardship
proceedings in the English court. The father took out motion asking
the mother that the two children should be delivered into his care,
that he should be at liberty to convey them to New York and that the
wardship of the children should be discharged. The Trial Judge held 5
(1966) 1 W.L.R. 381 = (1966) 1 All.E.R. 886
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that the justice of the case required the children to be returned
without delay to the jurisdiction of the New York court, so that the
question of where and with whom they should live might be decided
as soon as possible by that court. The mother appealed to the Court
of Appeal. Willmer L.J. and Harman L.J. by their separate judgments
affirmed the view of the Trial Judge and held that the proper order
was to send these two boys back to their State of New York, where
they belong (and where the Supreme Court is already seized of their
case), and more especially so having regard to the fact that they
have been kept in flagrant contempt of New York Court's order.
Willmer L.J. agreed with the remark of Cross J. where he said:
"The sudden and unauthorized removal of children from one country to another is far too frequent nowadays, and as it seems to me it is the duty of all courts in all countries to do all they can to ensure that the wrongdoer does not gain an advantage by his wrongdoing."
Willmer L.J. went on to hold:
"The judge took the view (and I think it was the right view) that in a case such as the present it was not necessary to go into all the disputed questions between the parents, but that he ought to send these boys back to their own country to be dealt with by the court of their own country, provided that he was satisfied (as he was satisfied, having seen the father himself, and having had the benefit of the view expressed on behalf of the Official Solicitor) that they would come to no harm if the father took them back to the United States; and that this was so, even though it might
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 subsequently turn out, after all the merits of the case had been thoroughly thrashed out in the court in New York, that it would perhaps be better after all for the boys to reside in England and see little or nothing of their father."
Harman L.J. in his separate judgment held thus:
".......But if he chose to take the course which the judge here took in the interests of the children , as he thought, of sending them back to the United States with no more inquiry into the matter than to ensure, so far as he could, that there was no danger to their moral or physical health in taking that course, I am of opinion that he was amply justified, and that that was the right way in which to approach the issue.
These children had been the subject of an order (it is true made by consent) made in the courts of their own country in December, 1964. It was only three months later that the mother flouted that order, deceived her own advisers and deceived the court , and brought the children here with the object of taking them right out of their father's life and depriving him altogether of their society. The interval is so short that it seems to me that the court inevitably was bound to view the matter through those spectacles; that is to say, that the order having been made so shortly before, and there being no difference in the circumstances in the three months which had elapsed , there was no justification for the course which the mother had taken, and that she was not entitled to seek to bolster her own wrong by seeking the assistance of this court in perpetuating that position, and seeking to change the situation to the father's disadvantage."
14. In re. L (minors)6, the Court of Appeal was
concerned with the custody of the foreign children who were
removed from foreign jurisdiction by one parent. That was a
case where a German national domiciled and resident in
Germany married an English woman. Their matrimonial home 6
(1974) 1 All ER 913
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was Germany and the two children were born out of the
wedlock and brought up in Germany. The lady became
unhappy in her married life and in August, 1972, she brought
her children to England with an intention of permanently
establishing herself and the children in England. She obtained
residential employment in the school in England and the
children were accommodated at the school. The children not
having returned to Germany, the father came to England to find
them. On October 25, 1972, the mother issued an originating
summons making them wards of court. The trial judge found
that the children should be brought up by their mother and
treating the case as a `kidnapping' class of case, approached
the matter by observing that in such a case where the children
were foreign children, who had moved in a foreign home, their
life should continue in what were their natural surroundings,
unless it appeared to the court that it would be harmful to the
children if they were returned. He concluded that in view of the
arrangements which their father could make for them, the
children would not be harmed by being returned. He,
accordingly, ordered that they be returned to Germany and that
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they remain in their father's custody until further order. The
mother appealed, contending that in every case the welfare of
the child was the first and paramount consideration and that the
welfare of the children would be best served by staying with
their mother in England. Buckley, LJ in his detailed
consideration of the matter, wherein he referred to the
aforenoticed decisions and few other decisions as well, held as
follows :
".......Where the court has embarked on a full-scale investigation of that facts, the applicable principles, in my view, do not differ from those which apply to any other wardship case. The action of one party in kidnapping the child is doubtless one of the circumstances to be taken into account, any may be a circumstance of great weight; the weight to be attributed to it must depend on the circumstances of the particular case. The court may conclude that notwithstanding the conduct of the `kidnapper' the child should remain in his or her care (McKee v. McKee, Re E (an infant) and Re. T.A. (infants), where the order was merely interim); or it may conclude that the child should be returned to his or her native country or the jurisdiction from which he or she has been removed. Where a court makes a summary order for the return of a child to a foreign country without investigating the merits, the same principles, in my judgment apply, but the decision must be justified on somewhat different grounds.
.............................................................................. ...........The judge may well be persuaded that it would be better for the child that those merits should be investigated in a court in his native country than that he should spend in this country the period which must necessarily elapse before all the evidence can be assembled for adjudication here. Anyone who has had experience of the exercise of this delicate jurisdiction knows what complications can result from a child developing roots in new soil, and what conflicts this can occasion in the child's own life. Such roots can grow rapidly. An order that the child should be returned forthwith to the country from which he has been removed in the expectation that any dispute about his custody will be satisfactorily
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 resolved in the courts of that country may well be regarded as being in the best interests of the child......"
15. In re. L. (minors)6, the Court of Appeal has made a
distinction between cases, where the court considers the facts and
fully investigates the merits of a dispute, in a wardship matter in
which the welfare of the child concerned is not the only consideration
but is the first and paramount consideration, and cases where the
court do not embark on a full-scale investigation of the facts and
make a summary order for the return of a child to a foreign country
without investigating the merits. In this regard, Buckley, L.J. noticed
what was indicated by the Privy Council in McKee v. McKee2 that
there may be cases in which it is proper for a court in one jurisdiction
to make an order directing that a child be returned to a foreign
jurisdiction without investigating the merits of the dispute relating to
the care of the child on the ground that such an order is in the best
interest of the child.
16. This Court in Smt. Surinder Kaur Sandhu v. Harbax Singh
Sandhu and Another7 was concerned with the custody of a child--
British citizen by birth--to the parents of Indian citizens, who after
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(1984) 3 SCC 698
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their marriage settled in England. The child was removed by the
husband from the house when the wife was in the factory where she
was working and brought him to India. The wife obtained an order
under Section 41(English) Supreme Court Act, 1981 whereby the
husband was directed to handover the custody of the boy to her. The
said order was later on confirmed by the High Court in England. The
wife then came to India and filed a writ petition under Article 226 in
the High Court praying for production and custody of the child. The
High Court dismissed her writ petition against which the wife
appealed before this Court. Y.V. Chandrachud, C.J. (as he then was)
speaking for the Court held thus :
"The modern theory of Conflict of Laws recognises and, in any event, prefers the jurisdiction of the State which has the most intimate contact with the issues arising in the case. Jurisdiction is not attracted by the operation or creation of fortuitous circumstances such as the circumstance as to where the child, whose custody is in issue, is brought or for the time being lodged. To allow the assumption of jurisdiction by another State in such circumstances will only result in encouraging forum-shopping. Ordinarily, jurisdiction must follow upon functional lines. That is to say, for example, that in matters relating to matrimony and custody, the law of that place must govern which has the closest concern with the well-being of the spouses and the welfare of the offsprings of marriage. The spouses in this case had made England their home where this boy was born to them. The father cannot deprive the English Court of its jurisdiction to decide upon his custody by removing him to India, not in the normal movement of the matrimonial home but, by an act which was gravely detrimental to the peace of that home. The fact that the matrimonial home of the spouses was in England, establishes sufficient contacts or ties with that State in order to make it reasonable and just for the courts of that State to assume jurisdiction to enforce obligations which were
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 incurred therein by the spouses. (See International Shoe Company v. State of Washington which was not a matrimonial case but which is regarded as the fountainhead of the subsequent developments of jurisdictional issues like the one involved in the instant case.) It is our duty and function to protect the wife against the burden of litigating in an inconvenient forum which she and her husband had left voluntarily in order to make their living in England, where they gave birth to this unfortunate boy."
17. In Mrs. Elizabeth Dinshaw v. Arvand M. Dinshaw and
Another8, this Court held that it was the duty of courts in all countries
to see that a parent doing wrong by removing children out of the
country does not gain any advantage by his or her wrongdoing. In
para 9 of the report, this Court considered the decision of the Court of
Appeal in re H.5 and approved the same in the following words:
"9. In Re H. (infants) [(1966) 1 All ER 886] the Court of Appeal in England had occasion to consider a somewhat similar question. That case concerned the abduction to England of two minor boys who were American citizens. The father was a natural- born American citizen and the mother, though of Scottish origin, had been resident for 20 years in the United States of America. They were divorced in 1953 by a decree in Mexico, which embodied provisions entrusting the custody of the two boys to the mother with liberal access to the father. By an amendment made in that order in December 1964, a provision was incorporated that the boys should reside at all times in the State of New York and should at all times be under the control and jurisdiction of the State of New York. In March 1965, the mother removed the boys to England, without having obtained the approval of the New York court, and without having consulted the father; she purchased a house in England with the intention of remaining there permanently and of cutting off all contacts with the father. She ignored an order made in June 1965, by the Supreme Court of New York State to return the boys there. On a motion on notice given by the father in the Chancery Division of the Court in England, the trial Judge Cross, J. directed that since the children were American children and the 8
(1987) 1 SCC 42
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 American court was the proper court to decide the issue of custody, and as it was the duty of courts in all countries to see that a parent doing wrong by removing children out of their country did not gain any advantage by his or her wrongdoing, the court without going into the merits of the question as to where and with whom the children should live, would order that the children should go back to America. In the appeal filed against the said judgment in the Court of Appeal, Willmer, L.J. while dismissing the appeal extracted with approval the following passage from the judgment of Cross, J. [(1965) 3 All ER at p. 912. (Ed. : Source of the second quoted para could not be traced.)]:
"The sudden and unauthorised removal of children from one country to another is far too frequent nowadays, and as it seems to me, it is the duty of all courts in all countries to do all they can to ensure that the wrongdoer does not gain an advantage by his wrongdoing.
The courts in all countries ought, as I see it, to be careful not to do anything to encourage this tendency. This substitution of self-help for due process of law in this field can only harm the interests of wards generally, and a Judge should, as I see it, pay regard to the orders of the proper foreign court unless he is satisfied beyond reasonable doubt that to do so would inflict serious harm on the child."
10. With respect we are in complete agreement with the aforesaid enunciation of the principles of law to be applied by the courts in situations such as this."
18. In the case of Dhanwanti Joshi v. Madhav Unde9, this
Court was again concerned with the matter relating to removal of a
child from one country to another contrary to custody order of the
court from where the child was removed. This court considered
English decisions, inter alia, McKee v. McKee2 and H. (infants), re.5
and also noticed the decision of this Court in Mrs. Elizabeth Dinshaw8
and observed as follows :
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(1998) 1 SCC 112
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 "28. The leading case in this behalf is the one rendered by the Privy Council in 1951, in McKee v. McKee [(1951) AC 352]. In that case, the parties, who were American citizens, were married in USA in 1933 and lived there till December 1946. But they had separated in December 1940. On 17-12-1941, a decree of divorce was passed in USA and custody of the child was given to the father and later varied in favour of the mother. At that stage, the father took away the child to Canada. In habeas corpus proceedings by the mother, though initially the decisions of lower courts went against her, the Supreme Court of Canada gave her custody but the said Court held that the father could not have the question of custody retried in Canada once the question was adjudicated in favour of the mother in the USA earlier. On appeal to the Privy Council, Lord Simonds held that in proceedings relating to custody before the Canadian Court, the welfare and happiness of the infant was of paramount consideration and the order of a foreign court in USA as to his custody can be given due weight in the circumstances of the case, but such an order of a foreign court was only one of the facts which must be taken into consideration. It was further held that it was the duty of the Canadian Court to form an independent judgment on the merits of the matter in regard to the welfare of the child. The order of the foreign court in US would yield to the welfare of the child. "Comity of courts demanded not its enforcement, but its grave consideration". This case arising from Canada which lays down the law for Canada and U.K. has been consistently followed in latter cases. This view was reiterated by the House of Lords in J v. C (1970 AC 668). This is the law also in USA (see 24 American Jurisprudence, para 1001) and Australia. (See Khamis v. Khamis [(1978) 4 Fam LR 410 (Full Court) (Aus)].
29. However, there is an apparent contradiction between the above view and the one expressed in H. (infants), Re[(1966) 1 All ER 886] and in E. (an infant), Re [(1967) 1 All ER 881] to the effect that the court in the country to which the child is removed will send back the child to the country from which the child has been removed. This apparent conflict was explained and resolved by the Court of Appeal in 1974 in L. (minors) (wardship : jurisdiction), Re [(1974) 1 All ER 913, CA] and in R. (minors) (wardship : jurisdiction), Re [(1981) 2 FLR 416 (CA)]. It was held by the Court of Appeal in L., Re [(1974) 1 All ER 913, CA] that the view in McKee v. McKee [1951 A.C. 352 : (1951) All ER 942] is still the correct view and that the limited question which arose in the latter decisions was whether the court in the country to which the child was removed could conduct (a) a summary inquiry or (b) an elaborate inquiry on the question of custody. In the case of (a) a summary inquiry, the court would return custody to the country from which the child was
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removed unless such return could be shown to be harmful to the child. In the case of (b) an elaborate inquiry, the court could go into the merits as to where the permanent welfare lay and ignore the order of the foreign court or treat the fact of removal of the child from another country as only one of the circumstances. The crucial question as to whether the Court (in the country to which the child is removed) would exercise the summary or elaborate procedure is to be determined according to the child's welfare. The summary jurisdiction to return the child is invoked, for example, if the child had been removed from its native land and removed to another country where, maybe, his native language is not spoken, or the child gets divorced from the social customs and contacts to which he has been accustomed, or if its education in his native land is interrupted and the child is being subjected to a foreign system of education, -- for these are all acts which could psychologically disturb the child. Again the summary jurisdiction is exercised only if the court to which the child has been removed is moved promptly and quickly, for in that event, the Judge may well be persuaded that it would be better for the child that those merits should be investigated in a court in his native country on the expectation that an early decision in the native country could be in the interests of the child before the child could develop roots in the country to which he had been removed. Alternatively, the said court might think of conducting an elaborate inquiry on merits and have regard to the other facts of the case and the time that has lapsed after the removal of the child and consider if it would be in the interests of the child not to have it returned to the country from which it had been removed. In that event, the unauthorised removal of the child from the native country would not come in the way of the court in the country to which the child has been removed, to ignore the removal and independently consider whether the sending back of the child to its native country would be in the paramount interests of the child. (See Rayden & Jackson, 15th Edn., 1988, pp. 1477-79; Bromley, Family law, 7th Edn., 1987.) In R. (minors) (wardship : jurisdiction), Re [(1981) 2 FLR 416 (CA)] it has been firmly held that the concept of forum conveniens has no place in wardship jurisdiction.
30. We may here state that this Court in Elizabeth Dinshaw v. Arvand M. Dinshaw [(1987) 1 SCC 42 : 1987 SCC (Crl.) 13] while dealing with a child removed by the father from USA contrary to the custody orders of the US Court directed that the child be sent back to USA to the mother not only because of the principle of comity but also because, on facts, -- which were independently considered -- it was in the interests of the child to be sent back to the native State. There the removal of the child by the father and the mother's
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 application in India were within six months. In that context, this Court referred to H. (infants), Re which case, as pointed out by us above has been explained in L. Re as a case where the Court thought it fit to exercise its summary jurisdiction in the interests of the child. Be that as it may, the general principles laid down in McKee v. McKee and J v. C and the distinction between summary and elaborate inquiries as stated in L. (infants), Re are today well settled in UK, Canada, Australia and the USA. The same principles apply in our country. Therefore nothing precludes the Indian courts from considering the question on merits, having regard to the delay from 1984 -- even assuming that the earlier orders passed in India do not operate as constructive res judicata."
However, in view of the fact that the child had lived with his
mother in India for nearly twelve years, this Court held that it would
not exercise a summary jurisdiction to return the child to United
States of America on the ground that its removal from USA in 1984
was contrary to orders of U.S. Courts. It was also held that whenever
a question arises before a court pertaining to the custody of a minor
child, matter is to be decided not on considerations of the legal rights
of the parties but on the sole and predominant criterion of what would
best serve the interest of the minor.
19. In the case of Sarita Sharma v. Sushil Sharma10, this
Court was seized with a matter where the mother had removed the
children from U.S.A. despite the order of the American Court. It was
held :
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(2000) 3 SCC 14
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 "6. Therefore, it will not be proper to be guided entirely by the fact that the appellant Sarita had removed the children from U.S.A. despite the order of the Court of that country. So also, in view of the facts and circumstances of the case, the decree passed by the American Court though a relevant factor, cannot override the consideration of welfare of the minor children. We have already stated earlier that in U.S.A. respondent Sushil is staying along with his mother aged about 80 years. There is no one else in the family. The respondent appears to be in the habit of taking excessive alcohol. Though it is true that both the children have American citizenship and there is a possibility that in U.S.A they may be able to get better education, it is doubtful if the respondent will be in a position to take proper care of the children when they are so young. Out of them, one is a female child. She is aged about 5 years. Ordinarily, a female child should be allowed to remain with the mother so that she can be properly looked after. It is also not desirable that two children are separated from each other. If a female child has to stay with the mother, it will be in the interest of both the children that they both stay with the mother. Here in India also proper care of the children is taken and they are at present studying in good schools. We have not found the appellant wanting in taking proper care of the children. Both the children have a desire to stay with the mother. At the same time it must be said that the son, who is elder then the daughter, has good feelings for his father also. Considering all the aspects relating to the welfare of the children, we are of the opinion that in spite of the order passed by the Court in U.S.A. it was not proper for the High Court to have allowed the habeas corpus writ petition and directed the appellant to hand over custody of the children to the respondent and permit him to take them away to U.S.A. What would be in the interest of the children requires a full and thorough inquiry and, therefore, the High Court should have directed the respondent to initiate appropriate proceedings in which such an inquiry can be held. Still there is some possibility of the mother returning to U.S.A. in the interest of the children. Therefore, we do not desire to say anything more regarding entitlement of the custody of the children. The chances of the appellant returning to U.S.A. with the children would depend upon the joint efforts of the appellant and the respondent to get the arrest warrant cancelled by explaining to the Court in U.S.A. the circumstances under which she had left U.S.A. with the children without taking permission of the Court. There is a possibility that both of them may thereafter be able to approach the Court which passed the decree to suitably modify the order with respect to the custody of the children and visitation rights."
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20. While dealing with a case of custody of a child removed
by a parent from one country to another in contravention to the orders
of the court where the parties had set up their matrimonial home, the
court in the country to which child has been removed must first
consider the question whether the court could conduct an elaborate
enquiry on the question of custody or by dealing with the matter
summarily order a parent to return custody of the child to the country
from which the child was removed and all aspects relating to child's
welfare be investigated in a court in his own country. Should the court
take a view that an elaborate enquiry is necessary, obviously the
court is bound to consider the welfare and happiness of the child as
the paramount consideration and go into all relevant aspects of
welfare of child including stability and security, loving and
understanding care and guidance and full development of the child's
character, personality and talents. While doing so, the order of a
foreign court as to his custody may be given due weight; the weight
and persuasive effect of a foreign judgment must depend on the
circumstances of each case. However, in a case where the court
decides to exercise its jurisdiction summarily to return the child to his
own country, keeping in view the jurisdiction of the Court in the native
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country which has the closest concern and the most intimate contact
with the issues arising in the case, the court may leave the aspects
relating to the welfare of the child to be investigated by the court in
his own native country as that could be in the best interest of the
child. The indication given in McKee v. McKee2 that there may be
cases in which it is proper for a court in one jurisdiction to make an
order directing that a child be returned to a foreign jurisdiction without
investigating the merits of the dispute relating to the care of the child
on the ground that such an order is in the best interest of the child
has been explained in re. L (minors)6 and the said view has been
approved by this Court in Dhanwanti Joshi9. Similar view taken by the
Court of Appeal in re. H5 has been approved by this Court in
Elizabeth Dinshaw8.
21. Do the facts and circumstances of the present case
warrant an elaborate enquiry into the question of custody of minor
Adithya and should the parties be relegated to the said procedure
before appropriate forum in this country in this regard? In our
judgment, this is not required. Admittedly, Adithya is an American
citizen, born and brought up in United States of America. He has
spent his initial years there. The natural habitat of Adithya is in United
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States of America. As a matter of fact, keeping in view the welfare
and happiness of the child and in his best interest, the parties have
obtained series of consent orders concerning his custody/parenting
rights, maintenance etc. from the competent courts of jurisdiction in
America. Initially, on April 18, 2005, a consent order governing the
issues of custody and guardianship of minor Adithya was passed by
the New York State Supreme Court whereunder the court granted
joint custody of the child to the petitioner and respondent no. 6 and it
was stipulated in the order to keep the other party informed about the
whereabouts of the child. In a separation agreement entered into
between the parties on July 28, 2005, the consent order dated April
18, 2005 regarding custody of minor son Adithya continued. In
September 8, 2005 order whereby the marriage between the
petitioner and respondent no. 6 was dissolved by the New York State
Supreme Court, again the child custody order dated April 18, 2005
was incorporated. Then the petitioner and respondent no. 6 agreed
for modification of the custody order and, accordingly, the Family
Court of the State of New York on June 18, 2007 ordered that the
parties shall share joint legal and physical custody of the minor
Adithya and, in this regard, a comprehensive arrangement in respect
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of the custody of the child has been made. The fact that all orders
concerning the custody of the minor child Adithya have been passed
by American courts by consent of the parties shows that the
objections raised by respondent no. 6 in counter affidavit about
deprivation of basic rights of the child by the petitioner in the past;
failure of petitioner to give medication to the child; denial of education
to the minor child; deprivation of stable environment to the minor
child; and child abuse are hollow and without any substance. The
objection raised by the respondent no. 6 in the counter affidavit that
the American courts which passed the order/decree had no
jurisdiction and being inconsistent to Indian laws cannot be executed
in India also prima facie does not seem to have any merit since
despite the fact that the respondent no. 6 has been staying in India
for more than two years, she has not pursued any legal proceeding
for the sole custody of the minor Adithya or for declaration that the
orders passed by the American courts concerning the custody of
minor child Adithya are null and void and without jurisdiction. Rather
it transpires from the counter affidavit that initially respondent no. 6
initiated the proceedings under Guardianship and Wards Act but later
on withdrew the same. The facts and circumstances noticed above
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leave no manner of doubt that merely because the child has been
brought to India by respondent no. 6, the custody issue concerning
minor child Adithya does not deserve to be gone into by the courts in
India and it would be in accord with principles of comity as well as on
facts to return the child back to the United States of America from
where he has been removed and enable the parties to establish the
case before the courts in the native State of the child, i.e. United
States of America for modification of the existing custody orders.
There is nothing on record which may even remotely suggest that it
would be harmful for the child to be returned to his native country.
22. It is true that child Adithya has been in India for almost
two years since he was removed by the mother--respondent no. 6
--contrary to the custody orders of the U.S. court passed by consent
of the parties. It is also true that one of the factors to be kept in mind
in exercise of summary jurisdiction in the interest of child is that
application for custody/return of the child is made promptly and
quickly after the child has been removed. This is so because any
delay may result in child developing roots in the country to which he
has been removed. From the counter affidavit that has been filed by
respondent no. 6, it is apparent that in last two years child Adithya did
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not have education at one place. He has moved from one school to
another. He was admitted in school at Dehradun by respondent no. 6
but then removed within few months. In the month of June, 2009, the
child has been admitted in some school at Chennai. As a matter of
fact, the minor child Adithya and respondent no. 6 could not be traced
and their whereabouts could not be found for more than two years
since the notice was issued by this Court. The respondent no. 6 and
the child has been moving from one State to another. The parents of
respondent no. 6 have filed an affidavit before this Court denying any
knowledge or awareness of the whereabouts of respondent no. 6 and
minor child Adithya ever since they left in September, 2007. In these
circumstances, there has been no occasion for the child developing
roots in this country. Moreover, the present habeas corpus petition
has been filed by the petitioner promptly and without any delay, but
since the respondent no. 6 has been moving from one State to
another and her whereabouts were not known, the notice could not
be served and child could not be produced for more than two years.
23. In a case such as the present one, we are satisfied that
return of minor Adithya to United States of America, for the time
being, from where he has been removed and brought here would be
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in the best interest of the child and also such order is justified in view
of the assurances given by the petitioner that he would bear all the
traveling expenses and make living arrangements for respondent no.
6 in the United Sates of America till the necessary orders are passed
by the competent court; that the petitioner would comply with the
custody/parenting rights as per consent order dated June 18, 2007 till
such time as the competent court in United States of America takes a
further decision; that the petitioner will request that the warrants
against respondent no. 6 be dropped; that the petitioner will not file or
pursue any criminal charges for violation by respondent no. 6 of the
consent order in the United States of America and that if any
application is filed by respondent no. 6 in the competent court in
United States of America, the petitioner shall cooperate in expeditious
hearing of such application. The petitioner has also stated that he has
obtained confirmation from Martha Hunt Elementary School, Murphy,
Texas, 75094, that minor son Adithya will be admitted to school
forthwith.
24. The learned Senior Counsel for respondent no. 6 sought
to raise an objection regarding the maintainability of habeas corpus
petition under Article 32 of the Constitution before this Court but we
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are not persuaded to accept the same. Suffice it to say that in the
peculiar facts and circumstances of the case which have already
been noticed above and the order that we intend to pass, invocation
of jurisdiction of this Court under Article 32 cannot be said to be
inappropriate.
25. We record our appreciation for the work done by the
concerned officers/officials of CBI in tracing the minor child Adithya
and producing him in less than two months of the order passed by
this Court, although, the Police Officers and Officials of different
States failed in tracing the child Adithya and respondent no. 6 for
more than two years. But for the earnest efforts on the part of the CBI
authorities, it would not have been possible for this Court to hear and
decide this habeas corpus petition involving the sensitive issue
concerning a child of seven years who is a foreign national.
26. In the result and for the reasons stated, we pass the
following order :
(i) The respondent no. 6 shall act as per the consent
order dated June 18, 2007 passed by the Family Court of the
State of New York till such time any further order is passed on
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the petition that may be moved by the parties henceforth and,
accordingly, she will take the child Adithya of her own to the
United States of America within fifteen days from today and
report to that court.
(ii) The petitioner shall bear all the traveling expenses
of the respondent no. 6 and minor child Adithya and make
arrangements for the residence of respondent no. 6 in the
United States of America till further orders are passed by the
competent court.
(iii) The petitioner shall request the authorities that the
warrants against respondent no. 6 be dropped. He shall not file
or pursue any criminal charges for violation by respondent no. 6
of the consent order in the United States of America.
(iv) The respondent no. 6 shall furnish her address and
contact number in India to the CBI authorities and also inform
them in advance the date and flight details of her departure
along with child Adithya for United States of America.
(v) In the event of respondent no. 6 not taking the child
Adithya of her own to United States of America within fifteen
days from today, child Adithya with his passport shall be
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 restored to the custody of the petitioner to be taken to United
States of America. The child will be a ward of the concerned
court that passed the consent order dated June 18, 2007. It will
be open to respondent no. 6 to move that court for a review of
the custody of the child, if so advised.
(vi) The parties shall bear their own costs.
..................
......J (Tarun Chatterjee)
...................
.....J
(R. M. Lodha)
........................J
(Dr. B.S. Chauhan)
New Delhi

child custody to mother even father is good in financial


Child Custody given to Mother with visitation right to  father.

“Learned counsel for the appellant submitted that the child's education is of paramount importance and the father is spending good amount of money for providing him excellent education, and the mother does not have the financial affluence as the appellant claims to have. But that can be taken care of if father is asked to pay the educational expenses of the child in addition to the maintenance being paid to the respondent. But at the same time it cannot be overlooked that the father needs to have visitation rights of the child.”

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION
CIVIL APPEAL NO. 5099 OF 2007
Gaurav Nagpal ...Appellant Versus
Sumedha Nagpal ....Respondent (With Criminal Appeal NO. 491 of 2006)
JUDGMENT
Dr. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.
1. Challenge in this appeal is to the judgment of a learned Single Judge of the Punjab and Haryana High Court dismissing the appeal filed by the appellant. Learned District Judge, Gurgaon, had allowed the application filed by the respondent-wife under Section 6 of the Hindu Minority and
Guardianship Act, 1956 (in short the 'Act') alongwith Section 25 of the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 (in short `Guardian Act').
2. Matrimonial discords are on the rise at an alarming rate. The sanctity of marriages is under cloud, which in a great way affects the society at large. Individuals can in no way be segregated from the society to which they belong. The cultural heritage of a country is greatly influenced by a pattern of behaviour of individuals and more so in matters of matrimony. Home can be a wonderful place to live. But continuous fights between the partners of a marriage disturb the atmosphere at home and create havoc on the members of a family. One does not need a mansion to lead a happy marital home. The foundation of a happy home is love, sharing of joys and sorrows, and not in that sense bricks and concrete. There should be cementing of hearts and not cementing of floors and walls. Life is a series of awakening. The happiness which brings enduring worth to life is not the superficial happiness that is dependent on circumstances. Ultimately, in the fight between the partners, the victims more often than not are the children. It is unfortunate that in their fight more often on account of egoism the children suffer, more particularly when the child is a girl. It is not uncommon to see that at the time of negotiation of marriage, the boy's 2

parents shy away because the girl is from a broken family and/or the parents are divorced. The child has practically no role in breaking of the marriage, but he or she suffers. The marital discord sometimes reaches a stage where the parties are unmindful of what psychological, mental and physical impact it has on children. It is worse when there is a single child, be it a boy or a girl. The case at hand is a classic example where the child has become the focus of controversy. Bitter legal fights have been fought and the corridors of several courts including the Supreme Court have been travelled by the parties. Efforts have been made unsuccessfully to bring about conciliation between the parties. The best way to make children good said a learned author is to make them happy.
3. A brief reference to the factual aspects leaving out the maize of unnecessary facts would suffice.
The parties got married on 14.10.1996 and the child from their wedlock was born on 15.11.1997. According to the appellant, respondent abandoned the child on 8.8.1999 but she filed a Habeas Corpus Petition before the Delhi High Court on 25.8.1999. The High Court dismissed the petition on the ground of territorial jurisdiction. Respondent filed a Special Leave Petition against the High Court's order dated 14.1.2000 and also 3

filed a Writ Petition under Article 32 of the Constitution of India, 1950 (in short the `Constitution'). This Court permitted interim custody of the 20 months old child with the appellant. The respondent filed a maintenance petition before the Delhi High Court and also a petition for guardianship before a learned Additional District Judge, Jhajjar. The same was later withdrawn and the petition was filed in the District Court, Gurgaon. Appellant filed his reply opposing the application on the ground that the respondent had deserted the child. By order dated 2.5.2002, learned Civil Judge dismissed the application for interim custody holding that any disturbance by changing the custody of the child would traumatize him and shall not be conducive to the welfare of the child and it would affect the mental balance of the child who had developed love and affection for his father and his family members. A Revision Petition was filed by the respondent before the High Court. The High Court granted the visitation rights to the respondent by order 30.9.2002 but continued the interim custody with the appellant. The visitation rights fixed by the Court were in the following terms:
(a) 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on every last Saturday of the month. (b) For a week in the aforesaid manner in summer vacations. 4

 (c) One day in Dussehra holidays (9 a.m. to 5 p.m. (d) One day in Diwali Holidays (9 a.m. to 5 p.m.). A contempt petition was filed for violation of the terms by the appellant. The learned District Judge, Gurgaon allowed the petition of the respondent and granted custody of the child to the respondent. Appellant preferred an appeal before the High Court against the order dated 6.1.2007. The High Court passed an interim order staying the order of custody to the respondent but continued the order with respect to visitation rights. By order dated 13.7.2007 the appeal filed by the appellant was dismissed. Though the initial order of the High Court was stayed, subsequently by order dated 29.10.2007 the visitation rights were continued.
4. According to the appellant, the order of the High Court is clearly wrong on several counts. The order passed by the High Court dated 9.3.2005 convicting the appellant for contempt of court has also been assailed in Criminal Appeal No.491 of 2006. The Trial Court came to hold that since the child had remained with the appellant for a period of 7 years, he appears to have made every possible effort to obtain the custody of a minor. The learned District Judge took note of the fact that taking of the 5

child from his father's custody may adversely affect the sentiments and upbringing of the child, but at the same time the child should not be deprived the mother's home.
5. Stand of the appellant before the High Court was that the court below had not held that he suffers from any disability in his role as a father and, therefore, there was no comprehensive reason for the Court to direct custody of the child to be entrusted to the respondent. The fact that the respondent was the mother cannot be the sole basis for allowing the petition. While considering the prayer for the custody of the child, several factors including the relationship between the parties and the minor are secondary. It was submitted that the minor was abandoned when he was about one year and nine months old. Thereafter, in the garb of seeking custody several rounds of litigation were unleashed.
6. With reference to Section 6 of the Act it was submitted that the father was the legal guardian and the welfare of the minor child lies with the appellant. He has a large income and resides in a joint family where the minor is taken care of by the appellant, his mother, brother and brother's wife and his three nephews. The warmth of the joint family has led to an all 6

round development of the child and by taking him away from those surroundings can deprive him of love and affection. The appellant lives in a posh locality and the house is built on nearly 3000 sq. yards whereas the respondent resides with her parents in a two-bed room flat. Apart from that the appellant has a good educational background and since the child has been residing for the last more than seven years with him, the courts should not have directed handing over custody to the respondent.
7. It was further pointed out that the primary focus being the welfare of the child, the respondent should have brought on record as to how with her meagre income she would be able to provide good education to the child. It was pointed out that the child is afraid of his mother and wrenching him from the custody of the father would lead to irreparable mental trauma.
8. So far as the contempt proceedings were concerned it was submitted that the appellant is not a criminal and though certain cases have been lodged against him they are related to some technical violations.
9. The respondent's stand on the other hand was that the appellant had shifted his residence to Bahadurgarh by deception and fraud. From there the 7

child was snatched from her custody on 1.8.1999. Since that date she has approached various courts to seek custody of the child and for redressal of her grievances. The respondent got order relating to interim custody. For failure to comply with the orders of interim custody, the appellant was convicted by the High Court and sentenced to one month's imprisonment and though the order of sentence has been stayed, the order of conviction still continues to be in force. The appellant's conduct in disobeying the orders passed by the courts discloses that he has no respect or any regard for the rule of law. It was further submitted that the child's welfare cannot be weighed in terms of money, facilities, area of a house or the financial might of either the father or the mother. It was pointed out that respondent had no option but to reside with her parents and is a teacher in Salwan Public School. Merely because she was residing with the parents cannot disqualify her from looking after her child. She may not be as financially sound as the appellant, but that alone cannot disentitle her from the custody of the child. She has stated that she was drawing a salary of Rs.13,000/-p.m. (which is likely to be substantially increased) and was receiving Rs.25,000/- as maintenance pursuant to the order passed by the Delhi High Court and she can look after the financial needs for educating the child. She resides in Gulabi Bagh which is well located and surrounded and there is a park 8

nearby. The colony has 8-10 parks and it is a better location where the child can be well developed. Therefore, it cannot be said that the respondent resides in an area which is unsuitable to the minor child.
10. It is also pointed out that the appellant has no fixed residence. He shifted from Delhi to Bahadurgarh and then Gurgaon and back to Delhi in a house in Sainik farm where the appellant claims to reside. Same is owned by his brother. It has been a deliberate attempt to poison the mind of the child. Negative facts have been fed into the child's mind against the respondent. It was further submitted that if sufficient time is given the child would overcome any tutored prejudice. Though, there was a claim that the relatives would provide healthy environment to the child, none of them stepped into the witness box and affidavits filed much later cannot be a substitute for the evidence in Court. The High Court took note of Section 13 of the Act which is the foundation for the custody of the child. The welfare of the minor is of paramount consideration. The High Court looking into the materials placed observed as follows: "In view of the facts, noticed herein before, the question that exercises this Court's mind is should the child be permitted to stay with a father, who inculcates fear and apprehension in the mind of minor, against his mother and thwarts court orders with impunity. The answer to the above questions, in my 9

 opinion, must be in the negative. The appellant, cannot wish away his role, in the minor harboring such an irrational fear towards the mother. I am conscious of the fact that directing the custody of the child to the respondent, may result in a degree of trauma. However, the daily trauma the child appears to undergo while being tutored against his mother would be far in excess of the trauma likely to be faced while entrusting to the respondent. The minor child must be allowed to grow up with a healthy regard for both parents. A parent in this case, the appellant, who poisons the minor's mind against the other parent cannot possibly be stated to act for the welfare of the minor."
11. It is submitted that the High Court was not oblivious of the financial status of the respondent. The High Court also found that large area of accommodation and financial affluence cannot be a determinative factor. Therefore, the High Court did not find any scope for interference with the order of the court below.
12. In support of the appeal, learned counsel for the appellant re-iterated the stand taken before the High Court. It was additionally submitted that the child's reluctance to go with the mother should have been duly considered by the High Court. Apparently, that has not been done. 10

13. Strong reliance is placed on a decision of this Court in Mausami Moitra Ganguli v. Jayant Ganguli (JT 2008 (6) SC 634) wherein this Court on 12th May, 2008 dismissed the mother's appeal, according to appellant, on identical facts.
14. The Respondent, who appeared in person, highlighted the stands taken by her before the learned District Judge and the High Court. The main plank of appellant's argument is to continue custody with the father. The appellant has managed to retain the custody by flouting the order passed by this Court. It is pointed out by the respondent that for flouting the orders of the Court the appellant has been convicted for contempt of court which is the subject matter of challenge in criminal appeal. It was not the first instance when the appellant flouted the order. It is pointed out that the factual scenario in Mausami Moitra's case (supra) was entirely different. In that case, courts below had analysed the material to conclude that it would be desirable to give custody to the father. The factual scenario is entirely different here.
15. It is to be noticed as done at the threshold that in the present dispute the child has become the victim.
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16. It is pointed out by the respondent that she was not aware that the appellant was a divorcee. The first wife was ill treated by the appellant and his relatives on account of alleged meagre dowry. She was eventually ousted from the matrimonial home alongwith a minor child. Since the appellant demanded custody of the child and threatened the respondent, information was lodged at the Police Station. On 1.8.1999 while the respondent was attending to household chores, the appellant whisked away their minor child and sent him to some unknown place at Delhi. The respondent was bundled into a car and kept in illegal confinement at the house of one Sh. Bal Kishan Dang from where she escaped on 8.8.1999. She sent telegrams to various authorities and a formal complaint was lodged with the Police Station, Sarai Rohilla alleging wrongful confinement and kidnapping of the child. In the meanwhile, the respondent's father lodged a complaint with the police at Bahadurgarh. The appellant was arrested and produced before the Court at Bahadurgarh. An application was filed before the Sub-Divisional Judicial Magistrate, Bahadurgarh, requesting the court to hold an inquiry, as to the whereabouts of the minor child. The Magistrate passed an order directing the appellant to produce the child on the next date of hearing. However, as the respondent could not reach the court in time, the 12

Magistrate granted bail to the appellant and declined the prayer for production of the minor child. Thereafter, the respondent, filed an application for issuance of a writ in the nature of Habeas Corpus before the High Court at Delhi. Despite issuance of notice, the appellant failed to produce the child. Eventually on 11.1.2000, the petition was dismissed for want of territorial jurisdiction. The respondent, thereafter, filed a Special Leave Petition before this Court, as also a writ petition under Article 32 of the Constitution. Both these petitions were dismissed by this Court, directing the respondent, to avail her remedy before the Guardian Court. The respondent, thereafter filed a petition under Section 6 of the Act, praying for the custody of the minor child. The respondent, prayed before the Trial Court that as she was the mother of a minor child and as she did not suffer from any disability, the appellant be directed to hand over the custody of the minor child. It was averred in the petition that though the appellant claimed to be the owner of various companies, he had committed various frauds.
17. The appellant played fraud with the respondent by concealing the fact that he was earlier married to one Alka Nagpal and his marriage broke as he is supposed to have similarly tortured and harassed his wife as was made 13

out to the respondent. It is the respondent's case that as she was unable to bear the physical and mental agony, Alka Nagpal committed suicide within six months of her marriage. It is also pointed out that the criminal cases involving offences punishable under Sections 498A, 406, 323, 506, 343 and 109 IPC are pending in the CBI Court, Patiala against the appellant and his family members. It is also pointed out that the child was shifted from one school to another at various places in Haryana and Delhi.
18. It was pointed out that the conduct of the appellant was noted by the Local Commissioner of Police in his report on 10.10.2003 who committed repeated defaults in bringing the child on various dates. The High Court noted that fact and came to a conclusion that the appellant had willfully disobeyed the orders of this Court and had poisoned the mind of the child against the mother. It was further noted that the child could only meet the mother with the help of a duty Magistrate.
19. We shall first deal with law relating to custody in various countries. English Law
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20. In Halsbury's Laws of England, Fourth Edition, Vol. 24, para 511 at page 217 it has been stated;
"Where in any proceedings before any court the custody or upbringing of a minor is in question, then, in deciding that question, the court must regard the minor's welfare as the first and paramount consideration, and may not take into consideration whether from any other point of view the father's claim in respect of that custody or upbringing is superior to that of the mother, or the mother's claim is superior to that of the father."
(emphasis supplied)
It has also been stated that if the minor is of any age to exercise a choice, the court will take his wishes into consideration. (para 534; page 229).
21. Sometimes, a writ of habeas corpus is sought for custody of a minor child. In such cases also, the paramount consideration which is required to be kept in view by a writ-Court is `welfare of the child'.
22. In Habeas Corpus, Vol. I, page 581, Bailey states; "The reputation of the father may be as stainless as crystal; he may not be afflicted with the slightest mental, moral or physical disqualifications from superintending the general welfare of the infant; the mother may have been separated from him without the shadow of a pretence of justification; and yet the interests 15

 of the child may imperatively demand the denial of the father's right and its continuance with the mother. The tender age and precarious state of its health make the vigilance of the mother indispensable to its proper care; for, not doubting that paternal anxiety would seek for and obtain the best substitute which could be procured yet every instinct of humanity unerringly proclaims that no substitute can supply the place of her whose watchfulness over the sleeping cradle, or waking moments of her offspring, is prompted by deeper and holier feeling than the most liberal allowance of nurses' wages could possibly stimulate."
23. It is further observed that an incidental aspect, which has a bearing on the question, may also be adverted to. In determining whether it will be for the best interests of a child to grant its custody to the father or mother, the Court may properly consult the child, if it has sufficient judgment.
24. In Mc Grath, Re, (1893) 1 Ch 143 : 62 LJ Ch 208, Lindley, L.J. observed;
The dominant matter for the consideration of the Court is the welfare of the child. But the welfare of the child is not to be measured by money only nor merely physical comfort. The word `welfare' must be taken in its widest sense. The moral or religious welfare of the child must be considered as well as its physical well-being. Nor can the tie of affection be disregarded.
(emphasis supplied)
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American Law
25. Law in the United States is also not different. In American Jurisprudence, Second Edition, Vol. 39; para 31; page 34, it is stated; "As a rule, in the selection of a guardian of a minor, the best interest of the child is the paramount consideration, to which even the rights of parents must sometimes yield". (emphasis supplied)
In para 148; pp.280-81; it is stated;
"Generally, where the writ of habeas corpus is prosecuted for the purpose of determining the right to custody of a child, the controversy does not involve the question of personal freedom, because an infant is presumed to be in the custody of someone until it attains its majority. The Court, in passing on the writ in a child custody case, deals with a matter of an equitable nature, it is not bound by any mere legal right of parent or guardian, but is to give his or her claim to the custody of the child due weight as a claim founded on human nature and generally equitable and just. Therefore, these cases are decided, not on the legal right of the petitioner to be relieved from unlawful imprisonment or detention, as in the case of an adult, but on the Court's view of the best interests of those whose welfare requires that they be in custody of one person or another; and hence, a court is not bound to deliver a child into the custody of any claimant or of any person, but should, in the exercise of a sound discretion, after careful consideration of the facts, leave it in such custody as its welfare at the time appears to require. In short, the child's welfare is the supreme consideration, irrespective of the rights and wrongs of its contending parents, although the natural rights of the parents are entitled to consideration.
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 An application by a parent, through the medium of a habeas corpus proceeding, for custody of a child is addressed to the discretion of the court, and custody may be withheld from the parent where it is made clearly to appear that by reason of unfitness for the trust or of other sufficient causes the permanent interests of the child would be sacrificed by a change of custody. In determining whether it will be for the best interest of a child to award its custody to the father or mother, the Court may properly consult the child, if it has sufficient judgment".
(emphasis supplied)
26. In Howarth v. Northcott, 152 Conn 460 : 208 A 2nd 540 : 17 ALR 3rd 758; it was stated;
"In habeas corpus proceedings to determine child custody, the jurisdiction exercised by the Court rests in such cases on its inherent equitable powers and exerts the force of the State, as parens patriae, for the protection of its infant ward, and the very nature and scope of the inquiry and the result sought to be accomplished call for the exercise of the jurisdiction of a court of equity".
It was further observed;
"The employment of the forms of habeas corpus in a child custody case is not for the purpose of testing the legality of a confinement or restraint as contemplated by the ancient common law writ, or by statute, but the primary purpose is to furnish a means by which the court, in the exercise of its judicial discretion, may determine what is best for the welfare of the child, and the decision is reached by a consideration of the equities involved in the welfare of the child, against 18

 which the legal rights of no one, including the parents, are allowed to militate".
(emphasis supplied)
27. It was also indicated that ordinarily, the basis for issuance of a writ of habeas corpus is an illegal detention; but in the case of such a writ sued out for the detention of a child, the law is concerned not so much with the illegality of the detention as with the welfare of the child.
28. The legal position in India follows the above doctrine. There are various statutes which give legislative recognition to these well-established principles. It would be appropriate if we examine some of the statutes dealing with the situation. Guardians Act, consolidates and amends the law relating to guardians and wards. Section 4 of the said Act defines "minor" as a person who has not attained the age of majority. "Guardian" means a person having the care of the person of a minor or of his property, or of both his person and property. "Ward" is defined as a minor for whose person or property or both, there is a guardian. Chapter II (Sections 5 to 19 of Guardians Act) relates to appointment and declaration of guardians. Section 7 thereof deals with `power of the Court to make order as to guardianship' and reads as under:
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 7. Power of the Court to make order as to guardianship.-(1) Where the Court is satisfied that it is for the welfare of a minor that an order should be made--
(a) appointing a guardian of his person or property, or both, or (b) declaring a person to be such a guardian,
the Court may make an order accordingly.
(2) An order under this section shall imply the removal of any guardian who has not been appointed by will or other instrument or appointed or declared by the Court. (3) Where a guardian has been appointed by will or other instrument or appointed or declared by the Court, an order under this section appointing or declaring another person to be guardian in his stead shall not be made until the powers of the guardian appointed or declared as aforesaid have ceased under the provisions of this Act.
29. Section 8 of the Guardians Act enumerates persons entitled to apply for an order as to guardianship. Section 9 empowers the Court having jurisdiction to entertain an application for guardianship. Sections 10 to 16 deal with procedure and powers of Court. Section 17 is another material provision and may be reproduced;
"17. Matters to be considered by the Court in appointing guardian.-(1) In appointing or declaring the guardian of a minor, the Court shall, subject to the provisions of this section, be guided by what, consistently with the law to which the minor is subject, appears in the circumstances to be for the welfare of the minor.
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 (2) In considering what will be for the welfare of the minor, the Court shall have regard to the age, sex and religion of the minor, the character and capacity of the proposed guardian and his nearness of kin to the minor, the wishes, if any, of a deceased parent, and any existing or previous relations of the proposed guardian with the minor or his property. (3) If the minor is old enough to form an intelligent preference, the Court may consider that preference. *****
(5) The Court shall not appoint or declare any person to be a guardian against his will.
(emphasis supplied)
30. Section 19 prohibits the Court from appointing guardians in certain cases.
Chapter III (Sections 20 to 42) prescribes duties, rights and liabilities of guardians.
31. The Act is another equally important statute relating to minority and guardianship among Hindus. Section 4 defines "minor" as a person who has not completed the age of eighteen years. "Guardian" means a person having the care of the person of a minor or of his property or of both his persons and property, and inter alia includes a natural guardian. Section 2 of the Act declares that the provisions of the Act shall be in addition to, and not in derogation of 1890 Act.
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32. Section 6 enacts as to who can be said to be a natural guardian. It reads thus;
6. Natural guardians of a Hindu Minor.--The natural guardians of a Hindu minor, in respect of the minor's person as well as in respect of the minor's property (excluding his or her undivided interest in joint family property), are-- (a) in the case of a boy or an unmarried girl--the father, and after him, the mother; provided that the custody of a minor who has not completed the age of five years shall ordinarily be with the mother;
(b) in the case of an illegitimate boy or an illegitimate unmarried girl--the mother, and after her, the father. (c) in the case of a married girl--the husband:
Provided that no person shall be entitled to act as the natural guardian of a minor under the provisions of this section --
(a) if he has ceased to be a Hindu, or
(b) if he has completely and finally renounced the world becoming a hermit (vanaprastha) or an ascetic (yati or sanyasi).
Explanation.--In this section, the expressions "father" and "mother" do not include a step-father and a step- mother.
33. Section 8 enumerates powers of natural guardian. Section 13 is extremely important provision and deals with welfare of a minor. The same may be quoted in extenso;
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 13. Welfare of minor to be paramount consideration. (1) In the appointment or declaration of any person as guardian of a Hindu minor by a court, the welfare of the minor shall be the paramount consideration.
(2) No, person shall be entitled to the guardianship by virtue of the provisions of this Act or of any law relating to guardianship in marriage among Hindus, if the court is of opinion that his or her guardianship will not be for the welfare of the minor.
(emphasis supplied)
34. Section 26 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 provides for custody of children and declares that in any proceeding under the said Act, the Court could make, from time to time, such interim orders as it might deem just and proper with respect to custody, maintenance and education of minor children, consistently with their wishes, wherever possible.
35. The principles in relation to the custody of a minor child are well settled. In determining the question as to who should be given custody of a minor child, the paramount consideration is the `welfare of the child' and not rights of the parents under a statute for the time being in force. 23

36. The aforesaid statutory provisions came up for consideration before Courts in India in several cases. Let us deal with few decisions wherein the courts have applied the principles relating to grant of custody of minor children by taking into account their interest and well-being as paramount consideration.
37. In Saraswathibai Shripad v. Shripad Vasanji, ILR 1941 Bom 455 : AIR 1941 Bom 103; the High Court of Bombay stated; "It is not the welfare of the father, nor the welfare of the mother that is the paramount consideration for the Court. It is the welfare of the minor and the minor alone which is the paramount consideration."
(emphasis supplied)
38. In Rosy Jacob v. Jacob A. Chakramakkal, (1973) 1 SCC 840, this Court held that object and purpose of 1890 Act is not merely physical custody of the minor but due protection of the rights of ward's health, maintenance and education. The power and duty of the Court under the Act is the welfare of minor. In considering the question of welfare of minor, due regard has of course to be given to the right of the father as natural guardian but if the custody of the father cannot promote the welfare of the children, he may be refused such guardianship.
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39. Again, in Thrity Hoshie Dolikuka v. Hoshiam Shavaksha Dolikuka, (1982) 2 SCC 544, this Court reiterated that the only consideration of the Court in deciding the question of custody of minor should be the welfare and interest of the minor. And it is the special duty and responsibility of the Court. Mature thinking is indeed necessary in such situation to decide what will enure to the benefit and welfare of the child.
40. Merely because there is no defect in his personal care and his attachment for his children--which every normal parent has, he would not be granted custody. Simply because the father loves his children and is not shown to be otherwise undesirable does not necessarily lead to the conclusion that the welfare of the children would be better promoted by granting their custody to him. Children are not mere chattels nor are they toys for their parents. Absolute right of parents over the destinies and the lives of their children, in the modern changed social conditions must yield to the considerations of their welfare as human beings so that they may grow up in a normal balanced manner to be useful members of the society and the guardian court in case of a dispute between the mother and the father, is expected to strike a just and proper balance between the 25

requirements of welfare of the minor children and the rights of their respective parents over them.
41. In Surinder Kaur Sandhu (Smt.) v. Harbax Singh Sandhu, (1984) 3 SCC 698, this Court held that Section 6 of the Act constitutes father as a natural guardian of a minor son. But that provision cannot supersede the paramount consideration as to what is conducive to the welfare of the minor. [See also Elizabeth Dinshaw (Mrs.) v. Arvand M. Dinshaw, (1987) 1 SCC 42; Chandrakala Menon (Mrs.) v. Vipin Menon (Capt), (1993) 2 SCC 6].
42. When the court is confronted with conflicting demands made by the parents, each time it has to justify the demands. The Court has not only to look at the issue on legalistic basis, in such matters human angles are relevant for deciding those issues. The court then does not give emphasis on what the parties say, it has to exercise a jurisdiction which is aimed at the welfare of the minor. As observed recently in Mousami Moitra Ganguli's case (supra), the Court has to due weightage to the child's ordinary contentment, health, education, intellectual development and favourable surroundings but over and above physical comforts, the moral and ethical 26

values have also to be noted. They are equal if not more important than the others.
43. The word `welfare' used in Section 13 of the Act has to be construed literally and must be taken in its widest sense. The moral and ethical welfare of the child must also weigh with the Court as well as its physical well being. Though the provisions of the special statutes which govern the rights of the parents or guardians may be taken into consideration, there is nothing which can stand in the way of the Court exercising its parens patriae jurisdiction arising in such cases.
44. The trump card in appellants' argument is that the child is living since long with the father. The argument is attractive. But the same overlooks a very significant factor. By flouting various orders, leading even to initiation of contempt proceedings, the appellant has managed to keep custody of the child. He can not be a beneficiary of his own wrongs. The High Court has referred to these aspects in detail in the impugned judgments.
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It is true that taking the child out of the father's custody may cause some problems, but that is bound to be neutralized.
46. Learned counsel for the appellant submitted that the child's education is of paramount importance and the father is spending good amount of money for providing him excellent education, and the mother does not have the financial affluence as the appellant claims to have. But that can be taken care of if father is asked to pay the educational expenses of the child in addition to the maintenance being paid to the respondent. But at the same time it cannot be overlooked that the father needs to have visitation rights of the child.
47. In partial modification of the order passed by the District Judge and the High Court, we direct that the visitation rights shall be in the following terms:
(1) During long holidays/vacations covering more than two weeks the child will be allowed to be in the company of the father for a period of seven days.
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 (2) The period shall be fixed by the father after due intimation to the mother who shall permit the child to go with the father for the aforesaid period.
(3) For twice every month preferably on Saturday or Sunday or a festival day, mother shall allow the child to visit the father from morning to evening. Father shall take the child and leave him back at the mother's place on such days.
48. The appeal is dismissed subject to aforesaid modifications. Costs fixed at Rs.25,000/-.
CRIMINAL APPEAL NO. 491 OF 2006
49. Though we find that the order of the High Court does not suffer from any infirmity but taking into account the fact that we have dismissed the connected Civil appeal relating to the custody of the child, while upholding the finding of guilt for disobeying the Court's order and committing contempt of Court, we restrict the sentence to the period already undergone. 29

50. Before saying omega, we propose to make some general observations. It is a disturbing phenomenon that large number of cases are flooding the courts relating to divorce or judicial separation. An apprehension is gaining ground that the provisions relating to divorce in the Hindu Marriage Act, 1950 (in short the `Marriage Act') has led to such a situation. In other words, the feeling is that the statute is facilitating breaking of homes rather than saving them. This may be too wide a view because actions are suspect. But that does not make the section invalid. Actions may be bad, but not the Section. The provisions relating to divorce categorise situations in which a decree for divorce can be sought for. Merely because such a course is available to be adopted, should not normally provide incentive to persons to seek divorce, unless the marriage has irretrievably broken. Effort should be to bring about conciliation to bridge the communication gap which lead to such undesirable proceedings. People rushing to courts for breaking up of marriage should come as a last resort, and unless it has an inevitable result, courts should try to bring about conciliation. The emphasis should be on saving marriage and not breaking it. As noted above, this is more important in cases where the children bear the brunt of dissolution of marriage. 30

50. One must not lose faith in humanity. It is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. If nothing ever went wrong in one's life, he or she would never have a chance to grow stronger. One should never forget that today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and tomorrow a vision of hope. Marital happiness depends upon mutual trust, respect and understanding. A home should not be an arena for ego clashes and misunderstandings. There should be physical and mental union. Marriage is something, Ibsen said in "The League of Youth" you have to give your whole mind to. If marriages are made in Heaven as Tennyson said in Ayloner's Field, why make matrimonial home hell is a big question.
51. The appeals are dismissed subject to the aforesaid modifications. ................................J.
(Dr. ARIJIT PASAYAT)
................................J.
(G.S. SINGHVI)
New Delhi,

custody of children to father


Custody of Child can be given to father.
“We are sure that the appellant- father, who is a member of Indian Administrative Service and is a well groomed person, with the help of his father, who was also a professor, will be able to take very good care of the children. Their education would not be adversely affected even in Jammu and Kashmir as it would be possible for the appellant-father to get them educated in a good school in Jammu. We do not believe that the children would remain in company of servants as alleged by the learned counsel appearing for the respondent-mother. Father of the appellant i.e. the grandfather of the children would also be in a position to look after the children and infuse good cultural values into them. Normally, grandparents can spare more time with their grand children and especially company of well educated grandparents would not only help the children in their studies but would also help them to imbibe cultural and moral values and good manners.”

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION
CIVIL APPEAL NO. 4308 OF 2012
(Arising out of Special Leave Petition (C) No. 13254 of 2011)
Shaleen Kabra Appellant
Vs.
Shiwani Kabra Respondent
With
CIVIL APPEAL NO.4309 OF 2012
(Arising out of Special Leave Petition (C) No. 15819 of 2011)
JUDGMENT
ANIL R. DAVE, J
1. Leave granted.
2. Being aggrieved by the judgment of the High Court of Delhi dated the 21st of February, 2011 in CM(M) 1018 of 2010, these appeals have been filed by the parties before the High Court, who are parents of two children, whose custody is the subject matter of these appeals.
3. As the impugned order is challenged in both these appeals, both the appeals were heard together and they are being decided by this common order. For the sake of convenience, parties to the litigation have been referred to hereinbelow as arrayed in Civil Appeal arising out of Special Leave petition No. 13254 of 2011.
4. The marriage of the appellant and the respondent was solemnized on 14.02.1994. From the wedlock, two sons were born, who are approximately 15 and 9 years old. The appellant and the respondent have been living separately since 10.04.2007, and have been involved in various litigations since then, including a petition for divorce under Section 13(1)(i) & 1A of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 filed by the appellant- father and also proceedings under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, initiated by the respondent-mother. The appellant, who is an IAS officer, stationed at Jammu at present, had sought certain modifications in the arrangement of custody of the children, and also permission to take transfer certificates of the children from Delhi and complete their admission in a school in Jammu, and in this respect, moved applications dated 25.05.2010 and 22.06.2010 before the Additional District Judge. The Learned Additional District Judge, vide order dated 19.07.2010 was pleased to allow the applications moved by the appellant- father.
5. Being aggrieved by the above-mentioned judgment delivered by the Trial Court, the respondent preferred CM(M) No. 1018 of 2010 before the High Court. By virtue of the impugned judgment, the High Court partly allowed the petition filed by the respondent whereby the respondent was permitted to have custody of the younger son, whereas the appellant was to have custody of the elder son.
6. While coming to the above conclusion, the High Court has cited various decisions in support of the contention that while deciding the issue about custody of children in a matrimonial dispute, the paramount consideration is that of welfare of the child. Thereafter, on the basis of interaction with the children in the Chambers, the learned Single Judge was of the view that the elder son had a strong desire to stay with the appellant-father. He also found that there was also an admission by the respondent-mother that she would not be able to adequately handle the educational needs of the elder son without tutors. For the aforestated reasons, the learned Single Judge ordered that custody of the elder son should remain with the appellant-father.
7. In the case of the younger son, the learned Single Judge observed that he, being of a very tender age, was incapable of forming a definite preference as to with whom he wanted to stay. In the circumstances, the learned Single Judge ordered that the custody of the younger son should be given to the respondent-mother, as she would be in a better position to understand the needs of such a young child. On this basis, the custody of the younger son was directed to remain with the respondent.
8. The learned Single Judge also recorded a finding to the effect that both the children appeared to be very happy in the company of each other as there was a strong bonding between them.
9. Being aggrieved by the said judgment, both the parties have come before this Court vide the present appeals.
10. We heard the learned counsel for the parties, and also spoke to the children at length.
11. The counsel appearing for the appellant-father, at the outset, submitted that the High Court ought not to have directed separation of two children, in view of the close relationship between them and he further submitted that there could be disastrous effect of such a separation on them. Thereafter, the learned counsel made further submissions about the poor academic performance of the younger son while in the custody of the respondent-mother, and also regarding the alleged adulterous conduct of the respondent-mother, which was said to have a severe adverse effect on the children. The learned counsel further added that the father of the appellant, i.e. grand father of the children, is staying with the appellant and he, being a very educated person, would be in a position to take good care of the children. On these grounds inter alia, the learned counsel argued that both the children ought not to have been separated, and that custody ought to have been granted to the appellant-father.
12. On the other hand, the learned counsel appearing for the respondent- mother submitted that looking to the service condition and status of the appellant-father, occupying a stressful position in the state of Jammu & Kashmir, he would not have sufficient time to give adequate attention to the children and if custody of the children is given to him, the children would be taken care of only by servants and that would not be in the interest of the children. Further, the learned counsel argued that as the children were already in a very good school in Delhi, it would not be just and proper to move them to another school in Jammu & Kashmir which might be of an inferior standard. For the aforestated reasons, the learned counsel argued that custody of even the elder son ought to have been granted to the respondent-mother.
13. On hearing the learned counsel and also upon talking at length with the children, we find force in the arguments of the counsel for the appellant- father.
14. Upon speaking to the children personally, we also found that they are indeed very much attached to each other. This fact was also noted by the learned Single Judge of the High Court in the impugned judgment, and is also admitted by both the parties in their respective written submissions. Looking to the overall peculiar circumstances of the case, it is our view that the welfare of both the children would be best served if they remain together. In our view it would not be just and proper to separate both brothers, who are admittedly very close to each other.
15. If we are of the view that both the brothers should not be separated and should be kept together, the question would be as to who should be given custody of the children.
16. We are of the view that the children should be with the appellant- father. The respondent-mother is not in a position to look after the educational need of the elder son and as we do not desire to separate both the brothers, in our opinion, looking to the peculiar facts of the case, it would be in the interest of the children that they stay with the appellant-father.
17. We are sure that the appellant- father, who is a member of Indian Administrative Service and is a well groomed person, with the help of his father, who was also a professor, will be able to take very good care of the children. Their education would not be adversely affected even in Jammu and Kashmir as it would be possible for the appellant-father to get them educated in a good school in Jammu. We do not believe that the children would remain in company of servants as alleged by the learned counsel appearing for the respondent-mother. Father of the appellant i.e. the grandfather of the children would also be in a position to look after the children and infuse good cultural values into them. Normally, grandparents can spare more time with their grand children and especially company of well educated grandparents would not only help the children in their studies but would also help them to imbibe cultural and moral values and good manners.
18. So as to see that the respondent-mother is also not kept away from the children, she shall have a right to visit the children atleast once in a month. The appellant –father shall make arrangements for A.C. First Class railway ticket for the respondent-mother or shall pay the railway fare to her so as to visit the children once in a month at a weekend and the appellant-father shall also make arrangements for stay of the respondent-mother either at his own residence, if the respondent-mother agrees to that, otherwise the appellant-father shall make arrangements for suitable accommodation for the respondent-mother when she comes to Jammu to visit the children.
19. During the period of vacation exceeding two weeks, the appellant-father shall send the children to Delhi so that the children can stay with the respondent-mother atleast for three days. We are sure that the appellant and the respondent shall determine the modalities as to during which portion of the vacation, the children should visit the respondent-mother as almost both the parents are interested in having the company of the children.
20. For the aforestated reasons and looking to the peculiar facts of the case, we quash and set aside the impugned order passed by the High Court and restore the order of the trial court, subject to modification of conditions-arrangements, recorded hereinabove. The custody of both the children shall be given to the appellant-father before 15th May, 2012 and the arrangements with regard to visit of the children etc. shall take effect from 1st June, 2012, the respondent-mother shall do the needful to send the younger son to the residence of the appellant-father before 15th May, 2012.
21. The appeals are accordingly allowed with no order as to costs.
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(D.K. JAIN)
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(ANIL R. DAVE)
NEW DELHI